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July 29, 2008

The moon came out early yesterday

Ya' know those really embarrassing moments you have in life? Well, I had one yesterday. I am trying to ignore that it ever happened but it creeps into my thoughts which causes an uncontrollable shiver throughout my hippo-sized body. Well, lucky for you dear reader, I am willing to divulge the information in hopes that the thought will stop hovering over me like some dark cloud.

As a family, we met Sean's mom at the movies to see Wall E. (super cute and worth the overly priced movie experience). The walk from the car to the theatre wasn't too long but there were a lot of people and a long flight of stairs to climb. We got popcorn and a drink and headed to our seats. I had to take Roxy to the bathroom once during the movie - and two nice male movie attendants pointed me in the right direction (the handicapped bathroom on the first floor). Anyway, it wasn't until after the movie and we were about half way back to the car when Dillen said, "Mom, did you know you have a hole in your skirt? Well, two really. Oh, wait, there's ANOTHER one!" Huh? What?? Since we were so close to the car and there was nothing I could do at this point I just said, "Really? Huh. Well, don't look."

It wasn't until we got home and I looked backwards in the mirror that I realized the extent of those "holes." I think a moth had a hay day with this skirt and chose to chew away on the back side only - probably snickering the entire time. WHY hadn't I seen these before I put the skirt on?? WHY didn't I do an "ass check" in the mirror before leaving the house?? WHY didn't Sean tell me I was sporting an early moon to all who inadvertently looked my butt's way??

deep sigh

And I was wearing a thong.

July 25, 2008

Backyard Fun

Sean took these the other night just before bedtime. The girls were in heaven and so were we as the weather had cooled off and the backyard felt like paradise.

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July 17, 2008

Libby Lu... Who?

A good friend of mine called about a week ago and invited Dillen, Roxy and I to join her and her two daughters in driving to Libby Lu's in Temecula. I'd never heard of this place before but since our car died that same day, it gave us something to do and sounded like a hoot. Perhaps this is something I should have cringed at but instead I found myself smiling from ear to ear the entire time watching all four girls being pampered for 2 hours straight and receiving VIP Hanna Montana treatment. The packages for the girls included hair, make up, nails and an exciting romp through the store filling their loot bags FULL of goodies. I still can't get over all they received for the amount we paid. Toward the end, they were invited to step directly outside of the store (in an enclosed mall) and learn a Hanna Montana dance. Even Roxy and her little buddy got into it! Mind you, Dillen and Roxy have no idea who Hanna Montana is. We haven't even gotten into the High School Musical craze, yet. But this didn't phase them in the least as you will see from the photos below (I borrowed Sean's camera.) All of the girls felt very sassy and diva-like. Fortunately, they remained as sweet as angels throughout.

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I think she's ready

Dillen has been so excited to welcome Piper into our home. Roxy is excited, too, but I think Dillen "gets it" a little differently. She lifts my shirt daily to give her a kiss - always asking where her face is, first. And she talks to her through my belly. She asks how I am feeling and assures me Piper will be with us soon when I say I am in a little bit of pain. She tells me how much she can't wait to hold her and sing songs to her.

The other day, a good friend came over with her newborn baby boy, Charlton. Dillen really wanted to hold him. After seeing how loving she was with him and how excited she was to play "big sis," I am fairly confident she will enjoy playing her lifetime role of loving big sister to little Piper Ann.

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12 Weeks Left

To the day tomorrow! :)

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I always knew I was a little dysfunctional

Heh.

So, ya' know how I've been so amazed at how "easy" this pregnancy has gone? Well, it's taken a slight turn for the worse and I am in pain. It hurts to walk, stand, lay down and, well, exist.

Ladies and gentlemen, introducing Symphysis Pubis Dysfunction.

The symphysis pubis is the joint where two of the four pelvic bones, the sacrum and coccyx at the back, and the two hip bones at the sides meet at the front of the pelvis. These pelvic joints are held together by very strong ligaments that are designed to prevent movement. The fibrocartilage holding the symphysis pubis together lengthens during pregnancy to prepare for the forces of childbirth. If the joint does not function sufficiently this could result in pain and or instability; this is symphysis pubis dysfunction. SPD affects approximately one in 35 women.

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July 12, 2008

Grab Some Popcorn

I haven't uploaded videos in a while and thought "live action" can be a fun way to get a glimpse of Dillen and Roxy. These are from some of our late afternoon family room/play time... oh, and one from the time they snuck into my makeup kit.

More to come...

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July 11, 2008

It's 3:30 AM

What are you doing?

Oh the joys of third trimester. I am sleepy. I am. But the difficulties in getting comfortable and the need to pee every 2-3 hours has begun to take over... and I find myself up... surfing the internet and dreaming, while awake, how nice it would be to be asleep. I'm not really complaining, just bored and felt like blogging. Any other early morning bloggers out there?

July 9, 2008

Leaving comments

...is now much easier. Go ahead. I dare all you lurkers. ;)

She's Ruling the School - and it's not even hers!

Each day, Roxy and I take Dillen to her Ready, Set, Go! program at the local elementary school. We always arrive a little early so that there is enough time for the girls to play on the play ground before class begins. It's been happening gradually, but today it was clear that Roxy has accomplished what she's been plotting all along. See, the first week, she made friends with most of the girls on the play ground - all who are either 5 or 6 years old. She would walk right up to them and ask their name, introduce herself and then join them in play. The second week she became a little more aggressive (now knowing their names) and would just walk right up to them and join them in play... nudging them to join her in what SHE wanted to do. And today it all came to a head. She walked with a marching, almost ownership-like, attitude. I sat down at my usual bench intrigued by her demeanor, and watched as she "collected" about 6 of the girls and, within just a few minutes, had them following her every command. At one point, she was running up the walkway, turned around and yelled to all of them, "STOP!" with her arms outstretched towards them. Then she said, "Now do this!" and she started to march in place. All of the girls kind of giggled but followed through for Roxy. Then she yelled, "OK! Are you ready guys? Let's go!!" And off she ran with all of them in tow. This lasted for about 5 minutes when the girls decided they had had enough of Little Miss Bossy Boss and went their own ways.

One of the teachers who was watching all of this with me was laughing and said, "It looks like she's ready for Kindergarten... and she's only two?" I had to laugh as I was thinking 'she's not ready for Kindergarten, she's ready to direct her own show or run her own business. Two going on twenty-two, perhaps.'

July 6, 2008

Oh Baby

14 weeks and 5 days left! :)

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July 5, 2008

Honing My Hover Craft Skills

I watch my girls like a hawk. I do. Especially when we are out and about somewhere. But even inside our locked home I am always checking in on them if I haven't seen or heard anything in a few minutes. I think my brother once referred to this as hover-craft mom syndrome.

So, it always makes me cock my head to one side in wonderment when I find things like a rock in the sink, a toothbrush in the toy stroller and an empty lip balm tube sitting on the coffee table (did one of them eat the lip balm or will I find it in the crack of the couch the next time - another year from now - I do a deep cleaning on the house?).

Equally intriguing is walking into a deserted play area to discover the silliest of scenarios that must have occurred during pretend play... like the other day when I found a large plastic cow tipped over and about 10 little odd animals and people snuggled into it's belly trying to nurse. Hmm.

A Very Pirate-riotic July 4th

Sean's birthday falls on the 4th of July... every year. Each year we have found some place to hike to and fight the crowds to enjoy the fireworks - which, for the past 3 years, have been nothing but lit up clouds since we've been so fogged in.

This year, we decided to skip all 4th of July celebrations and focus on Sean for his birthday.

The day started out with breakfast at one of our favorite local cafes and then a fun time at the park with the girls. We got home around 10:30 and packed a lunch for the beach and went to our famous Fletcher Cove (aka Shark Attack Beach). When we first arrived, it was foggy and only about 10 feet of depth-safe beach since the tide was just on the way out. Picture this with also a large crowd trying to enjoy the day - it was a little uncomfortable to say the least. However, after about a half hour of trying to keep Roxy occupied (Sean had Dillen in the water the entire time), some friends showed up and the water had receded quite a bit. We moved to where they were meeting some other friends and it turned into an oasis for children. A large group formed of people we knew and Roxy was in Heaven playing with her little friends in the sand and dad-made pools. We ended up staying for over 3 hours before everyone began to go their separate ways.

At home, Sean grabbed a book and enjoyed reading in the back yard while the girls and I decorated our dining room with balloons and a Pirates theme. We had eye patches, punch balls, blow-outs, a blow up sword and Dillen found one of her spider monkeys for the center piece. We still had enough time for the girls and I to relax and watch a movie before we went to dinner at a Thai restaurant called Bangkok Bay. We've been wanting to try it out for a while and it did not disappoint! I had a yummy curry rice with chicken, pineapple, cashew nuts and other spices thrown in. Sean had the chicken Panang and we ordered up a special appetizer dish presented in a large boat for the girls. Yum!!

When we returned home, I took a shower with both girls (this is always a treat for them) to get all of the sand off from earlier in the day and then we got into our pajamas for some birthday celebration fun. We had a special chocolate cake with chocolate filling decorated in a pirate theme and Sean got to open up his presents from all of us. It actually turned out to be one of the most special celebrations being just the 4.75 of us.

The girls were asleep by 7:00 and Sean and I by 8:30 (!) and we only stirred a little bit when we heard fireworks going off in the distance.

Perhaps next year we will attempt another fireworks birthday celebration, but this year couldn't have been more perfect...

July 2, 2008

Planes, Trains and Ambulances

We returned from a week long trip to Chicago on Monday to visit family and to celebrate the girls' great-grandma's (Sean's grandma) 88th birthday. There were a lot of celebrations - an event scheduled every day. Many memories were made and the time with Nan and Pops (as the girls call them) was priceless.

The trip did not go without any hitches or without any great stories to tell. Our first was during the plane ride heading into the Chicago airport. Approximately 45 minutes prior to landing, Sean and Roxy started playing a game of "catch me I'm being eaten by crocodiles." Roxy would pretend she couldn't get up off the floor in front of her seat and Sean would pull her up. I'm not sure how many times this happened since I was sitting in back of them with Dillen but it was, unfortunately, one too many. Roxy started screaming in pain and holding her left arm. We did the kid-switch pretty quickly and I realized that, while they were playing, her left elbow became dislocated - not the first time. This happened for sure when she was 3 months old and probably again about 6 months ago (but we thought it was her funny bone being bumped). Anyway, there I was holding her while she was wailing in pain and saying, "It hurts!" Not many around us knew what had happened. I think they thought what most think when a child starts crying on a plane: "Shut that kid up!" I wasn't sure how much time we had left before landing and was starting to wonder if we should land the plane early in some other state. Within about 10-15 minutes of Roxy crying off and on (she would stop each time she found relief in not moving) an announcement was made saying that we would be landing in 30 minutes. I decided we could hang in there and held Roxy close. Again, it wasn't constant crying but every time she would slightly move she'd start screaming again (and this girl has some lungs!). I was trying to come up with the best scenario for how to get Roxy to the ER upon landing when another announcement was made: "Ladies and Gentlemen, I apologize but there is going to be a delay. There are several airplanes that need to land before us so we will need to circle for a while." At this point, I decided enough was enough and told the stewardess that I needed to have our plane land ASAP so we could get Roxy to the ER. She was surprised that Roxy had been hurt (she also thought there was just a crying child on the plane) and said that if they make an emergency landing due to an injury, paramedics will be waiting at the plane door. PERFECT!! So, she went to tell the pilot and within 2 minutes another announcement was made: "Ladies and Gentlemen, we will be landing immediately due to an injured passenger. Upon landing, if you are in First Class or in any seats in rows 1-10 please remain seated while the family with the injured child has had a chance to depart the plane. Thank you for your cooperation." HAH! I bet anyone who had wanted to strangle my child because of her crying felt pretty bad now. Or not. But at least it gave us a little validation. The plane was silent and still when we landed except for a perfect comic-timing moment when Dillen yelled out, "Plane rides are FUN!" This gave everyone in ear shot a good chuckle before we got up to walk the aisle. Sure enough, when we got to the door of the plane there were 2 paramedics and about 5 police officers waiting. (No, the officers were not there to take Sean away in hand-cuffs. Heh. I guess it's protocol to have security accompany paramedics.) We were immediately rushed outside and onto the runway where an ambulance was waiting. I really have never heard Roxy cry so loudly. I think she even surprised the paramedics. She was both scared and in a lot of pain since we were now moving around so much. I crawled in and they had me lay on the gurney (tied my legs down and all) so I could hold Roxy while Sean and Dillen could sit on the bench next to me. Grandma Barbara stayed behind to get the luggage and meet Uncle Jim who was to pick us up at the airport. They both would soon meet us at the hospital. Sirens were going, sidewalks were ridden on and a big hoopla was made over our dear little Roxy who couldn't seem to be consoled. Even the little teddy bear the paramedic gave her was no consolation. About half way to the hospital, I noticed Dillen started welling up. She was so stoic throughout the ordeal but was on the verge of losing it. I asked if she was ok and she said, "I'm scared for Roxy. Is she going to be ok?" I assured her she would be fine but Dillen remained sad. Roxy turned her body to see Dillen and at that moment must have popped her elbow back into place because she perked up and said, "Dillen! I ok!! Don't cry Dillen. I Fine!" And with that, Roxy started waving her injured arm at Dillen. "See?!? I ok!" I looked at Sean and we both gave a deep sigh of relief but not without a bit of an added eye-roll. Our little Drama Princess was on a ride of her lifetime and all smiles. I told the paramedic she must have popped it back in herself and he agreed as she was now trying to make a friend of him. She even wanted to hold her little teddy bear now. We still were given top treatment the remainder of the ride with continuing sirens and random side of the road and wrong-way turns. And when we arrived, we were seen by an ER doctor and found ourselves heading out to Uncle Jim's car within an hour.

Fortunately, we were staying with Sean's cousins who have a 4 year old girl and a 1 year old boy and live in the suburbs... the home could not have been more comfortable and more of a child's paradise - including a basement that was filled with nothing but toys and art project possibilities. Dillen and her little cousin became fast friends and even enjoyed a slumber party together by sharing the same bed almost every night. It was a VERY welcome place to stay, especially after such a dramatic arrival.

On Friday, we had made plans (with about 10 other family members) to head into the City to go to American Girl. Rather then driving, we decided to take the train, then a water taxi and then walk about 3 blocks to our destination. This was a big treat since neither of our girls have ever ridden on a train or remembered a boat ride. It took about an hour to get there. If you (or your daughter/s) don't know about American Girl, I highly recommend you do not click on this link. Truly, the marketing is ingenious. Dillen and Roxy are sucked in - completely. And, to be honest, I am too. :) The building in Chicago is three floors including a theatre, cafe, photo studio, hair salon (for the dolls!) and loads of dolls, dolls and more dolls... and all of the doll accessories and clothes you could ever imagine. Indoor window displays were on every wall and dolls were perfectly dressed and placed throughout on separate center stands. Needless to say, our girls were in Heaven.

The time at AG was a blast. However, being 6 months pregnant (we hit the 24 week mark on Sunday!), I was beat tired and a little hesitant of the reverse trip back home. Still, there were no other options so off we went. Fortunately, we did have strollers for the three block walk but, unfortunately, Roxy fell asleep before we arrived at the water taxi. We had to break down the stroller to get it onto the boat so I picked her up. She was so out of it she felt like a ton of bricks. I carried her throughout the boat ride, up two very long set of stairs and onto the train - all while hoping she wouldn't pee since she wasn't wearing a diaper. While waiting on the train for departure, an announcement was made (gotta love these announcements) that there was a fire somewhere along the tracks and that, though the train would depart on time, there was no guarantee how long we would have to wait for the fire department to allow the train to pass and the wait could be indefinite. Hmm. The executive decision was made to exit the train and to investigate the L. When we got off, Amy (Sean's cousin's wife) busily checked her phone for updates. It looked like the trains were going to be in the clear after all so we decided to get on the next one - another 30 minute wait. Let me remind you that I am still holding Roxy and 6 months pregnant, and (for the fun of it) there was not ONE chair or bench to sit on in the station. ?!?!? But I downed some water and kept a smile on my face - holding one of the most precious little girls in all the world. I just kept reminding myself it could all be so much worse. Dillen was a trooper but did melt down just before we got on the train. It seemed we were waiting forever to get on the train but, once we got on, all was well again. Roxy woke up and Aunt Joanne had pretzels for the girls who perked up pretty quickly.

The rest of the trip included swimming in Aunt Joanne's indoor pool, meeting up with an old friend and playing with his wonderful 7 year old twin daughters, several birthday celebrations (I think we all had more then a pound of sweets by the end of the trip), and lots of catching up with family members. That being said, this was not your Hawaiian type vacation and we all were completely exhausted by the time we arrived home on Monday. I am still trying to catch up... you know that saying 'I need a vacation from this vacation'? Yeah. Kind of like that.

Pictures to come soon.